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No Path to the Heart; the Futility of Life with a Narcissist or Sociopath

Posted on December 13, 2015 at 7:55 PM

In a healthy, heart centered, relationship, we experience connection. The love between two people is given and received openly. There is a natural flow that exists. Of course it isn't perfect and as human beings we fall into fear, experience disconnection and we work to re-connect. These are the natural struggles of relationship, the rough patches. These struggles are not meant to be the norm.

In a relationship with a personality disordered person, we give love that is never authentical...

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Healing from Abuse: 6 Ways to Heal the Feminine Spirit after Abuse

Posted on December 4, 2015 at 7:10 PM

You may have identified you have been in a relationship with a narcissist, or a sociopath or a sociopathic-narcissist. You may have read and re-read the signs and symptoms. Maybe you have compared your stories with those of others who have walked the same road. Perhaps you have felt shock, anger and grief, at the realizations of who you were really with. Maybe you're wondering why. Why did I choose this person, or why did I let this person choose me? Maybe you're ready to start moving past it...

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Narcissistic Traits by Sun Sign

Posted on July 20, 2015 at 11:15 PM

By Jacqueline Hart



I wish there was an astrological sign that all Narcissists were born under. Unfortunately this is not the case. I can't make it quite that easy. But what I can do is describe the behaviors that align with narcissists of each of the sun signs. As with all sun sign interpretations, only basic traits can be extracted. More can be revealed in a complete natal chart.


Aries- The all out, malignant Narcissist. He is always...

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It's Not You it's Them; One Sure Sign of a Narcissist

Posted on June 27, 2015 at 4:30 PM


By: Jacqueline Hart



Do you suspect you are, or have been, in a relationship with a narcissist? Have you felt like the behavior of a loved one, co-worker or close friend drains you on a regular basis or leaves you feeling like you're the crazy one? Have you felt like:


 two people live in your partner's body; Prince Charming and a guy with an explosive even abusive, temper

 your parent/s sabotage instead ...

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Five Tips for Shining in your Power

Posted on June 9, 2015 at 7:55 PM

We've all been there, right? Someone steps right over our boundaries or treats us abusively, and we're left feeling victimized and angry. Maybe we even told the person in the past what our boundary is, and still they wiped their feet on it! How dare they? How could she be so disrespectful? How could he do this to me?


The question is: How could we do this to ourselves?


Many of us are unaware of what it really looks and feels like to give away our pow...

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What is Reiki?

Posted on June 9, 2015 at 10:10 AM


Reiki is the force within all living things. Matter is not living without the spark that is all life. Without the life force that runs through us, we're all simply meat suits. The word Reiki, translated, means; universal life force energy. It is the energy within all living things and the energy connecting all living things.


So what is Reiki healing? In a reiki healing session, the practitioner channels this energy from the surrounding environment,...

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Mindfulness and the Course

Posted on May 31, 2015 at 9:30 PM

By Jacqueline Hart

The lesson reviewed here is Lesson 243: Today I will Judge Nothing That Occurs.


This is a great lesson to bring to mind if your currently practicing mindful awareness. I may not always be able to bring love to every situation. I am human, after all, and equipped with an ever alert ego, ready to pounce on all perceived attacks to my peace. (A state of being which promises to pull me out of peace every time!)


The beauty in thi...

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Mercury Retrograde, Nothing to Fear

Posted on May 19, 2015 at 2:55 PM

Mercury Retrograde May 4, 2015 through June 27, 2015


Are you as tired as I am of the does and don'ts during a Mercury retrograde? Don't start new projects, sign contracts or, Heaven forbid, speak to anyone? It seems to me, these efforts to control the Mercury retrograde period have only served to extend the discomfort. We loose the gift being offered by trying to get our way through these manipulative tactics. I am as guilty as anyone else of these attempts, but through awa...

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Mercury Retrograde January 21 to February 11, 2015

Posted on January 20, 2015 at 4:30 PM

By Jacqueline Hart

Mercury is currently stationary direct and will officially retrograde tomorrow, January 21, for the next few weeks. The purpose of a Mercury Retrograde period is to slow down and review recent communications. To make sure we all stop and do the work, the universe will set up blocks to the completion of certain plans. When you come up against one of these blocks, don’t push, stop. It is likely there is an issue surfacing for you that needs your attention. Si...

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Uranus and Pluto Square: Revealing Your Authentic Self

Posted on December 27, 2014 at 11:00 PM

By Jacqueline Hart

From June 2012 through March of 2015 we are all experiencing the effects of Pluto in Capricorn squaring Uranus in Aries. This transit has not occurred since 1934, when the tension created triggered significant challenges to our established financial, political and social beliefs and behaviors. Realizations during this period paved the way for necessary changes lasting a decade. Transformation occurring within a society is only possible if change is occurr...

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